Monday, October 10, 2022

Be Careful How You Wear God, Do Not Make God Look Messy. I Attended A Groundbreaking For The New Rhythm & Blues Hall of Fame in Mississippi. God Met Me There, The Same Weekend I Attended A Church Banquet Event & Satan Met Them There. Read More!

 A Week Ago, I Attended A Groundbreaking For The New Rhythm & Blues Hall of Fame in Mississippi. God Met Me There, The Same Weekend I Attended A Church Banquet Event & Satan Met Them There. Be Careful How You Wear God. Do not Make God Look Messy: Our Talk, Behavior & Attitude Look Anyway But Christlike.  Who Are You Wearing, and What Are You Wearing? Father help us to wear you well and correctly; please help us to stop looking so much like the world that people are confused.

Let me share a story about my travels these past three weeks. A week ago, I attended a groundbreaking for the new Rhythm & Blues Hall of Fame in Mississippi. A secular event where musicians, educators, politicians, and preachers were in attendance. It was a secular event, and God met me there. He met the people there. This is what happened. In a twist or turn of things, one of the organizers had invited a pastor from Memphis to be on the program; the Founder of the event was aware but not aware of what he was going to do. So, God flipped the script; he would present an award, but God placed it on his heart to give a message. A 30-minute massage. I was inspired by the message that I took some notes. People were looking around, asking if we did not know that we were going to have a sermon at this event, but God knew.

The tone and atmosphere changed. People were more attentive and focused on his message. Now, let me go back before he went on the platform; he and another gentleman were staring at me; I saw them from my peripheral vision. I could see them looking and talking, basically starring; I was close to them but could not hear what they were saying, so when they saw that I was looking back at them, I spoke to them, and they immediately started talking; I introduced myself, and each took turns talking, they said we were like asking who is she, she must be someone important, she is different, and I asked as in different how? They said we are both pastors. We can recognize one of God's chosen. Do you sing? I said yes, and I preach and teach the gospel as well; they high-five and say we knew it; it was something about you that stood out, that Christlike appearance and humility, and one of them said, those are the fruits, she is carrying the fruits of the Spirit. Did it make me feel good? Of course, it did. I know to whom I belong, and so did these two pastors; however, nonbelievers can also see something different, and they will act differently in your presence; they will respect what they say and what they do, and if they are out of order, I will say something and get respect as a woman of God.

Now let me go back and share that before I talked to them; I decided I wanted to sit near the back of the tent where the event took place; there was a non-African American gentleman in front of me. He seemed out of place because he did not know anyone or was the 2% in the crowd. Anyway, I said hello, and when he turned around, he was smiling, so all he needed was that one hello from someone. God just put on my heart to reach out to him; I thought, Lord, should I say something? I felt pressed to say something; would you know he was a pastor? He said when I saw you, I knew there was something different about you, He said I am a pastor, and I will be offering prayer this morning here at the event. I asked whether he was a pastor in the area; he said yes. I shared with him my ministry and that I was a singer. He said I just knew something about you, such a pleasant person, a godly person, I must say. We exchanged information, I gave him my card, and he gave me his information. We stayed in touch and prayed for each other while sitting under the tent in the back.

The audience was under a tent, and the platform was in the front of the tent. I got to know the young lady about 25 yrs. of age who helped facilitate the events, and for some reason, she was drawn to me, and we connected. She asked me to pray for her, and she said I could tell you are different; will you pray for me, I told my fiancé that there is something about her, she is nice to me, and she encourages me; and I just met her. She is a Christian, I know, so I want her to pray for me. So, I prayed for her on the grounds of the event and for her fiancé's salvation. So, you must be careful how you wear God around people. People notice you.

The second part is that the same weekend I went to another event, a church banquet at an elaborate hotel, and the Devil was all up there that I left early. People with nasty attitudes, rude, demanding, arrogant, vain, and nothing Christlike but a false façade when in their clicks. Two women got into a fighting cursing match in the lobby because of their sitting, and one kept giving her title as deserving to sit with the important people; those were her words. All of God's children are important. Yet, here were confessing Christians, who were rolling their eyes, saying things distastefully, and gossiping about someone else at the event. These were supposed to be God's people who claimed to be His followers. Yet, they displayed the world's behavior, and the secular people behaved mannerly and watched their words and behavior. As I left, and a few others, I said God bless each of you, and one yelled, God does not have anything to do with this. Father, help us to wear you well and correctly; please help us to stop looking so much like the world that people are confused.

We are to live in such a way that those outside the faith see our honorable deeds and our manner and know that there is something "different" about us. Unbelievably, some of our greatest blessings will occur at "other places" than where we're used to, accustomed to, or expected. As Christians, we are to be unlike the world in our behavior but squarely in it as He was. We must also understand that being in the world, but not of it, is necessary if we are to be a light to those who are in spiritual darkness. We are to live in such a way that those outside the faith see our good deeds and our manner and know that there is something "different" about us. 
 

Father help us to wear you well and correctly; please help us to stop looking so much like the world that people are confused.
 

"Instead, clothe yourself with the presence of the Lord Jesus Christ. And don't let yourself think about ways to indulge your evil desires."  Romans 13:14

In the book of Romans, the apostle Paul wrote, "Clothe yourself with the presence of the Lord Jesus Christ. And do not let yourself think about ways to indulge your evil desires" (Romans 13:14 NLT).

The J. B. Phillips translation says, "Let us be Christ's men from head to foot and give no chances to the flesh to have its fling."

Paul was saying, in effect, that putting on the Lord Jesus is like putting on clothes. When we put on the Lord Jesus Christ, we make Christ a part of our lives daily.

When Jesus said to Matthew, the tax collector, "Follow me" (Mark 2:14 NLT), it also could be translated as "Follow with me," which speaks of companionship, relationship, and friendship. In other words, "Let's enter into a friendship. Let's enter a relationship together."

Yes, the Lord wants our obedience, but He also wants our companionship. So, Jesus said to Matthew, "I don't want you just to be one of my disciples; I want you to be one of my friends." And He offers that same invitation to us.

We often view God as harsh, austere, and angry, but nothing could be further from the truth. On the contrary, God is loving, God is compassionate, and God is caring. And He wants to enter into a friendship with us.

Jesus said, "I no longer call you slaves because a master doesn't confide in his slaves. Now you are my friends since I have told you everything the Father told me" (NLT). So, follow Jesus every day throughout your life until the end. And wherever you go, put on Jesus.

Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Colossians 3:12.

We all get up each morning and take a few minutes to decide what we will wear and how we want to present ourselves to the world. And yet, we give less thought to the things God says we should put on. How do I know? Because I make this mistake so often.

No matter where we go or who we will see, God wants us to clothe ourselves as Jesus would. Yet, in Proverbs 15:1tells us a gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs anger. It would be easy to justify reacting to someone, except God gives us clear instructions on how to treat our enemies, Luke 6:27-28. God tells us to love our enemies, to do good to those who hate us, and to pray for those who mistreat us. We are not dressed in compassion, kindness, and humility when we treat others harshly. We are not being gentle and patient. But instead, we are wearing pride, acting entitled and demanding.

Put on Gentleness. In the past, if I should say recent history, if someone is acting coarsely with me, I am tempted to work in the same way. Put on Humility and Put on Patience.

Sometimes we must leave where fish ain’t biting and go into unfamiliar territories where they are biting. I attended a secular event where fish were biting. Did I go there and use the word ain't in the sentence? Yes, I did. Anyone who knows me well knows I am not good at fishing, or it is not on my top priority list of regular activities. However, I have a good friend; her parents always wanted me to fish with them at least once a year back in the day. He is a very thoughtful man. After climbing into his waders and boots and gathering up his gear, he sits on the tailgate of his truck and scans the river for fifteen minutes or more, looking for rising fish. "No use fishing where they ain't," biting he says.

This makes me think of another question: Do I fish for souls where they ain't? It was said of Jesus that He was "a friend of tax collectors and sinners"(Luke 7:34). As Christians, we are to be unlike the world in our behavior but squarely in it as He was. So, we must ask ourselves: Do I, like Jesus, have friends who are sinners? If I have only Christian friends, I may be fishing for souls "where they ain't."

Being with nonbelievers is the first step in "fishing," then comes love, a heart-kindness thus sees beneath the surface of their off-hand remarks and listens for the more resounding cry of the soul. It asks, "Can you tell me more about that? And follows up with compassion. "There is much preaching in this friendliness. "George Herbert (1593 -1633),
Pastor and poet said.

Believe it or not, some of our greatest blessings will occur at "other places" than where we're used to, accustomed to, or expected. The problem is we must learn how to be sensitive and obedient to the move of God in unfamiliar places. We hope to come to church and hear testimonies of the goodness of God. But do you know God works miracles outside the church's four walls?

Understand that your limited location cannot limit a limitless God! He can heal at the gas station, provide while you are in the beauty salon, make a way while you are stuck in traffic, and pay a bill while you are applying for unemployment. Your God Is Able! So, the next time you need a miracle from God, call on Him, no matter where you are!

As hard as it may be for you to grasp, God is saving souls behind prison walls, He's giving job opportunities to those with no degree, He's healing in the hospice, He's providing shelter for those who last night slept under the bridge, He's feeding those who just spent their last dollar. God is not restrained, restricted, limited, held captive, hostage, or bondage by our menial expectations of Him or His ability.

I hear people talk about the Muslims, the Mormons, the Buddhist, and The Jehovah Witnesses way of sharing their belief. Here is something that these groups know that we as believers are not going to do. We are not going to go into the prison to convert anyone with the fear that someone will see us. Now, do not get me wrong, I am not claiming that all Christians walk in fear and will not enter a prison to share Jesus, there are Christian ministries that offer prison ministry, however, there is a significant percentage of us as believers and ministries who will not think of entering the cesspool of what we see as sin or sinners. We will not go where the ladies of the night walk, where the dope dealers are spending time together and making a drug sell, where the alcoholics are on skid row, and some will not visit a homeless shelter or some secular event; but wait a minute, didn't Jesus walk among sinners during most of His journey on earth? The Muslims mission is to go into the prison and convert young men into Islam. Nine out of ten inmates convert monthly. Muslims push the Quran, and they make sure that the inmates receive a copy of the Quran and that the prison system offers it in the religious education program. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Conversion_to_Islam_in_U.S._prisons.

The Buddhist are now entering the prison to teach their belief. In Britain, Buddhism was the fastest growing religion in prisons between 1997 and 2008. They decided to “spread the Dharma” by forming a paper Sangha for inmates across the country and that Sangha quickly moved throughout the prison because it promotes peace through meditation. The prison system in the United States shares that Buddhism in prison has been beneficial in shifting habits of violence to attitudes and behaviors grounded in compassion and understanding. This approach has significantly improved the lives of inmates and the environment of prison life. https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1002/9781118845387.wbeoc040.

https://www.baus.org/en/activities/prison-programs/

The Jehovah Witnesses are continuing to go door to door to promote the Watchtower and Mormons are continuing to collect data and census from their door-to-door mission to convert to Mormonism in inner city. Why as Christians and believers of Jesus Christ do we fear walking and talking with non-believers if they are outside of the walls of the church? Ain't no sense of us fishin where they ain't bitin. We may have to go in unfamiliar territories (often it will be outside of the walls). We catch them and Jesus will do the cleaning. We must also understand that being in the world, but not of it, is necessary if we are to be a light to those who are in spiritual darkness.

Do you know that you do not have to be in church, at the altar, or listening to the gospel to experience a move of God? He can hear you from the basketball court, in the hospital, at the Medicaid/Medicare office, at the mechanic shop, waiting for the bus, standing in line at the supermarket, waiting for customer service at the bank, or even sitting on a swing in the park! He Hears You, He Sees You, And He Will Meet Your Every Need…No Matter the Address, Your Need Shows Up At! Think about it: If He can show up and help the three Hebrew boys in a fire; Jonah in the belly of a fish; a bleeding woman in a crowd; and a paralytic coming down through the roof, indeed, He can show up anywhere you are.  God Can Meet You ANYWHERE Simply Because He's EVERYWHERE! Cry out to Him for your every need. As representatives of God, be careful how you wear God.


Believers in Jesus Christ are simply in the world—physically present—but not of it, not part of its values (John 17:14-15). Therefore, as believers, we should be set apart from the world. This means being holy and living a righteous life—to be set apart. We are not to engage in the sinful activities the world promotes, nor are we to retain the insipid, corrupt mind that the world creates. Instead, we are to conform ourselves, and our minds, to that of Jesus Christ (Romans 12:1-2). This is a daily activity and commitment.

We must also understand that being in the world, but not of it, is necessary if we are to be a light to those who are in spiritual darkness. We are to live in such a way that those outside the faith see our good deeds and our manner and know that there is something "different" about us. Christians who make every effort to live, think and act like those who do not know Christ do Him a great disservice. Even the heathen knows that "by their fruits, you shall know them," and as Christians, we should exhibit the fruit of the Spirit within us.

Being "in" the world also means we can enjoy the things of the world, such as the beautiful creation God has given us, but we are not to immerse ourselves in what the world values, nor are we to chase after worldly pleasures. Pleasure is no longer our calling in life, as it once was, but rather the worship of God.

When many of us think about becoming a missionary, we see the known and unknown obstacles facing us. Move halfway around the world to live among people who might not want us there and might never care about the message we bring. That is a scary proposition! Unfortunately, we can let fear crowd out our faith.

The Great Commission is your commission.

Many of us look for confirmation in a "calling." But Jesus did not call some (or any) of His followers to His mission. Rather, He called them to himself and sent them on a mission. So, if you are walking with Jesus, this Great Commission command is incumbent on you. Every disciple must be a disciple-maker, whether God sends you down the street or to the other side of the world.

As you go — to school, work, grocery store, and gym — live and love like Jesus. Be confident in His authority. Teach His commands. Abide in His presence.

Being sanctified in Christ Jesus requires that we be mindful of who we are. Knowing who we are is an aid in helping us to avoid that which is of the world:

"But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God's special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light" (1 Peter 2:9).

This truth alone should catapult us to a place where we should say to the world, "I don't need your power, or your popularity, or your platitudes, to make me someone — look who I am!"

How Can We Put This into Practice?

"Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, love for the Father is not in them. Everything in the world — the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life — comes not from the Father but the world. The world and its desires pass away, but whoever does the will of God lives forever" (1 John 2:15-17.

If all that is in the world is the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, then, as Scripture states, what does it profit me if I should gain the whole world, but in the end lose my soul? 

How do we maintain an "in the world, but not of the world" walk with the Lord? 

First, we can follow the Lord close:

"My soul clings to you; your right hand upholds me" (Psalm 63:8).

The psalmist says that he will be careful to follow the Lord closely. We must be mindful never of doing anything that would cause us to stray from Him. The world and its offerings can easily cause us to drift away from Him.

Daniel and his three friends in the Old Testament were taken from their homes and brought under Babylonian captivity. They were given new names to assimilate the four young men into Babylonian society. The world system seeks to do the same thing to us; not change our names literally but try to cause us to forget the God we serve through indoctrination—that was their plan.

But these four were devoted to God, and Daniel purposed in his heart that he would not defile himself with the food offered — he had standards. These young men serve as an example to every child of God who faces the forces of the world. Standing for what you believe may mean that you will stand alone, but that is fine when you have the favor of the Lord. 

Be Careful Not to Drift. "Therefore, we must pay much closer attention to what we have heard, lest we drift away from it" (Hebrews 2:1). Do you find yourself drifting away from the Lord and into the world? First, we need to remember who we are. This can give us the courage to stand on an evil day. Since Scripture clarifies that the world is our enemy, what is our defense against the world?

"For everyone who has been born of God overcomes the world. And this is the victory that has overcome the world – our faith” (1 John 5:4).

This verse should cause a shout! When we place our faith in the finished work of Christ on the cross, we are victorious over the world, the flesh, and the Devil! But, of course, this does not mean we will never be tempted with evil or sin because there is no sinless perfection or graduating class in Christ.

It does mean that sin shall not have dominion over us. Therefore, when we make Christ the object of our faith, when we ensure that we will have the help of the Holy Spirit who will guide us away from that which is evil, we need only to be obedient.  

As we walk through this world, it will beckon to us. So, as we engage in prayer (and the enemy will fight us there, too), let us be mindful of Christ's victory: Because He is victorious, so are we.

Our position is "in Christ" God knows where you fit best on His team. Unfortunately, most people do not know where they work!!! Religious people get upset when God uses people they deem unqualified. 

Be Careful How You Wear God. We are His Mouthpieces, Representatives, Ambassadors, Harvest Hands, Vessels, and Messengers. Do not Make God Look Messy Because Our Talk, Behavior & Attitude Look Anyway but Christlike. Who Are You Wearing, and What Are You Wearing?  People should look at us and say,” I know what family they belong to; their Father’s DNA is all over them. They walk like Him, Talk Like Him and act like Him. They are wearing the fruits of the Spirit.

You know how it goes, people can look at your relatives, children, or siblings and immediately say, " Oh my, you look just like your father, you talk just like your mother, you act just like your sibling, you all walk alike, and sound alike. Let me take it a little step further. I have traveled to nations and various locations in the states. I can hear a person's dialect/accent, and I can tell immediately if they are from the southern states, New England states, northern states, midwestern states, the various Caribbean islands, the UK, or Scotland. I remember being in New Zealand, and I walked past an outdoor restaurant; I heard the lady standing behind the cash register talking, I backed up and walked inside, and I said may I ask you a question and she said yes? I said I know you are from the United States, but what area may I ask? I know you are not a true Kiwi meaning New Zealander; she started laughing; she asked why you asked; I said because you talk like people in my area from the southern states; tell me, is it Alabama, Mississippi, Arkansas, Kentucky, or Tennessee? She laughed and said Tennessee? She asked what area of the states are you from, and I told her Tennessee? I said even your mannerism are like us Southerners—genuine southern hospitality.  She could not blend with the New Zealanders even if she tried.

You see, we should sound like and act like Jesus so that people immediately hear or see something in us that represents or reminds them of Him, and nonbelievers who do not know Him should see something in us that will make them want to know Him. Father help us to wear you well and correctly; please help us to stop looking so much like the world that people are confused. We are not suppose to blend with the world.

Blessings

J.P. Olson

https://www.thewordwithjpolson.com

Monday, October 3, 2022

Certain Things Can’t Happen For You Until God Sees That You’re Willing To Clean House. Fall Is The Season In Which Things, And People, Are Supposed To Fall Off! In Your Fall Seasons In Life, Let Them Fall. Don't Complain When They Fall Off.

 Ruth 1:14, “Then they wept aloud again, and Orpah KISSED her mother-in-law [GOODBYE]…” (AMP)

Some people can’t go where you’re going. Some will want to, but can’t... or won’t, because of what’s required. I don’t know who needs to hear this again but, SEPARATE... IN ORDER TO ELEVATE. Certain Things Can’t Happen For You Until God Sees That You’re Willing To Clean House. Sometimes You Just Have To Kiss And Say Good Bye to Friends and Relatives. Ruth 1:14, “Then they wept aloud again, and Orpah KISSED her mother-in-law [GOODBYE]…” (AMP)

Let Us Open With Prayer Before Today’s Inspirational Reading.

Father, today we stand in victory and call everything into submission through the authority of Jesus Christ?  Illness must flee; circumstances must flee and lack must flee. There’s nothing too hard for You to end.

Beginning the day in prayer! Father, when we seek Your kingdom above all else all that we need will be given to us. We often quote this scripture without seeking You first. Our lives are upside down as we try to seek everything else but You. We’re changing to seek You.

When we turn everything over to You, not only our problems but our entire heart that’s when transformation occurs. We begin to understand beyond the physical senses how You’re involved in our day-to-day lives holding us up by Your grace.

The Lord already knew every hardship that would arise... and He’s planned people and blessings to show up just to bless you. Just watch...this is the season you see God become so very personal to you! I declare the Lord knows how to comfort and soothe your heart...just watch.

When you need God knows. When you ask, God listens and when you believe, God Works.  It may look like your situation is never going to change, but in a split-second God can completely resolve it. Lord, today please show us verses you want us to pray so we can see Your Word Come Alive in our circumstances and become active in our life.

Let nothing that happens today, or has happened before, discourage you about tomorrow. Our words create things and tear things down. Pray that your words today would honor God and that the things you say might cooperate with what God wants to accomplish in you. God's plans for your life far exceed the circumstances of your day. Let God's promises shine on your problems.

Ruth 1:14, “Then they wept aloud again, and Orpah KISSED her mother-in-law [GOODBYE]…” (AMP)

Never allow the Immaturity of your Company to Compromise the Growth of your Calling! 

Some people can’t go where you’re going. Some will want to, but can’t... or won’t, because of what’s required. I don’t know who needs to hear this again but, SEPARATE... IN ORDER TO ELEVATE. Certain Things Can’t Happen For You Until God Sees That You’re Willing To Clean House. Sometimes You Just Have To Kiss And Say Good Bye to Friends and Relatives. Ruth 1:14, “Then they wept aloud again, and Orpah KISSED her mother-in-law [GOODBYE]…” (AMP)

I thought the truth is, for some people in our lives, it is time to simply kiss and say goodbye.

Ruth told Naomi, “Where you go, I will go.” And to be honest, you can spend your life anywhere with anybody doing anything, then suddenly meet someone and sense that there is a connection between you. It comes so naturally that they become a part of your life, attached as permanently as your hand is attached to your arm. It’s what made Elisha quit farming and follow Elijah, an eccentric prophet; it’s why Timothy hung out with Paul, an older man soon to be executed. You know intuitively, “I won’t reach my destiny without you in my life.” Looking back, you realize if you hadn’t met that certain person, or taken that phone call, added that Facebook friend, or read that email, you wouldn’t be where you are today. Truth is, so many people in our lives have played such major roles in helping us to become the greater person we’ve become, that it’s hard to even fathom life without them. It’s what kept Ruth attached to Naomi, even at the most miserable of times. Despite death, loss, famine, and the struggle to begin again, Ruth stayed. And man did her decision pay off! She meets and marries Boaz and produces a great seed in Obed. Naomi is provided for and gets a fresh start at life. She can finally leave the “Mara” (bitterness) feelings behind her, a new and great day has indeed come. And all because Ruth remained. And it doesn’t make Ruth good or bad, it’s just that her Character was not finished in the Role it would Play in Naomi’s Story.

On the other hand, “Orpah kissed her mother-in-law goodbye”. Now, Orpah’s leaving didn’t make her a bad person; it just meant her role in the story was over. Likewise, we need to learn how to recognize when somebody’s part in our story is over, otherwise we’ll kill ourselves constantly trying to raise the dead.

David pleaded with God for his newborn baby’s life. 2 Samuel 12:16-17, “David therefore appealed to God for the child [to be healed]; and David fasted and went in and lay all night on the ground.  The elders of his household stood by him [in the night] to lift him up from the ground, but he was unwilling [to get up] and would not eat food with them.” (AMP). But, when the child died, he had to accept that there was nothing more he could do, so he, “…got up from the ground, washed, anointed himself [with olive oil], changed his clothes, and went into the house of the Lord and worshiped. Then he came [back] to his own house, and when he asked, they set food before him, and he ate.” (12:20 AMP).

I can tell you from experience, one of the greatest things you can do for your body, soul, spirit, heart, emotions, and peace of mind, is to acknowledge when something in your life is over! I learned (and the hard way, might I add), that if God means you to have it, He’ll give it to you.  Psalm 84:11 declares, “For the Lord God is our sun and our shield. He gives us grace and glory. The Lord will withhold no good thing from those who do what is right.” (NLT). If you’re supposed to get it, God will give it to you! James 1:17 confirms, “But whatever is good and perfect comes to us from God…” (TLB) The Message Bible says it like this: “So, my very dear friends, don’t get thrown off course. Every desirable and beneficial gift comes out of heaven. The gifts are rivers of light cascading down from the Father of Light. There is nothing deceitful in God, nothing two-faced, nothing fickle. He brought us to life using the true Word, showing us off as the crown of all his creatures.” 16-18 MSG). Saints, if it was good for you, perfect for you, desirable for you, or beneficial for you, God would have given it to you! If He hasn’t, trust His decision. He’s a Father who will always do what is in His children’s best interest.

So, if you’ve tried to make it work and it hasn’t, accept His will in the matter. Get up, go to the mall, buy yourself a new outfit, treat yourself out to a good meal; whatever you do, just keep living! Never beg anyone to stay with you against their will, be it a relationship, friendship, or business/ministry partner. Their leaving is no accident; it just means God has something bigger, better, and greater in store for you (and possibly them too), so trust Him and move forward!

Sometimes, like it or not, people will leave your life. And there will also be times when you’ll have to make the decision to leave theirs. Listen to this:

Genesis 13:1, “So Abram left Egypt…and Lot was still with him…” (MSG).

Then read Genesis 13:14-17, “After Lot separated from him, God said to Abram, “Open your eyes, look around. Look north, south, east, and west. Everything you see, the whole land spread out before you, I will give to you and your children forever. I’ll make your descendants like dust—counting your descendants will be as impossible as counting the dust of the Earth. So—on your feet, get moving! Walk through the country, its length and breadth; I’m giving it all to you.” (MSG)

Did you read the good news I read? “AFTER LOT SEPARATED FROM HIM…” then the Bible says, “…GOD SAID TO ABRAM…” After Lot left, God spoke to Abram some of the most awesome promises in Scripture. Literally, nowhere could Abram turn, and not bump into a blessing! North, South, East, and West…Abram Would Be Prosperous! BUT God only spoke this, AFTER LOT LEFT!

I know it’s hard when the person you love leaves, but sometimes for God to give you what He’s had on reserve for you, you must release them first! Sometimes that will be a family member, a friend, a business associate, a ministry colleague. Sometimes the length of time together will be decades, years, months, weeks, days, or even mere hours, minutes, and seconds.  But when God says it’s time to let go, Let Them Go! Will it be easy? Absolutely not! Will it be impossible? Absolutely not! It will hurt, you may cry, you’ll experience regret, but you will continue to live on.

What’s Coming Is Better Than What’s Been. That’s something I need you to hold on to. God’s best for you is not behind you, but before you. However, if you keep holding onto your past, you’ll never be able to grab a hold of the great future God has in store for you.

More people will come, and yes, more people will leave as well. Your life is the ink in God’s pen, He’s the author writing a beautiful story, full of drama, action, suspense, comedy, romance, and the like. But you must remember that it’s His pen, His story, His characters. You must learn to be okay with the characters He brings to life, and the ones He allows to die off.

My favorite time of year is Autumn. I love everything about it! The weather is perfect, the scenery is beautiful, the clothing shifts and has such warm colors, the scents change to more apples, pumpkin, cinnamon, and cocoa. It’s my absolute favorite season! But there’s more to it than that for me. You see, Autumn is also a time when things change, get fickle, and fall off!

Therefore, in your Fall seasons in life, you better prepare yourself to let some shady, fickle folks fall!

And don’t complain when they fall off either! Fall Is The Season In Which Things, And People, Are Supposed To Fall Off! Can we keep it simple? When leaves fall, we rake ‘em up, put ‘em in a bag, tie it up, and sit it out for the garbage. We do not, however, attempt to pick ‘em up, and put ‘em back on the tree! See, when folks start falling off, you need to rake ‘em, bag ‘em, tie ‘em and put ‘em out for the garbage! Understand that the reason you keep failing your fall exam is because you keep trying to pick ‘em up and put ‘em back!  The Key To Passing The Test Is, In The Fall, Let ‘Em Fall!

There are two animals that possess a characteristic I love. And that’s Cats and Dogs. They do something regular, that I’ve learned to do regular myself, they shed. Now, the word “shed” means “to allow to fall off; to discard; to get rid of; to take and cast off”. Its Old English Origin means to, ‘separate or divide’.

See, cats, and dogs don’t shed, and attempt to put back on, what fell off! And neither should you! You need to get serious enough about your purpose and accept the fact that anyone that fell, wasn’t strong enough to hold you up in the first place; anyone that separated, wasn’t faithful enough to remain in covenant; and anyone that divided was subtracted because they couldn’t add or multiply anything worthwhile to your life anyhow! I’m warning you, in the fall, let ‘em fall!

Proverbs 30:25 says: “…they prepare their meat in the summer…” Don’t miss it: They gather in the summer, they drop things that are not a necessity in the fall, so they have what they need, their meat, in the winter! Let me help you, the reason you have nothing in your hands in the winter, is because you gathered everybody in the summer, but you didn’t let none of them non-essential folks go in the fall! And now, in the dead of winter, you have no meat in your hands, cause you still trying to hold up those you should’ve let down! I’m warning you, in the fall, let ‘em fall! 

You’re suffering because you’re trying to carry junk food into a winter season that requires Meat! The Bible says, “…they prepare their MEAT in the summer.” Listen to me well, your next season Requires MEAT! In the words of the Apostle Paul, “But strong MEAT belonged to them that are of full age…” (Hebrews 5:14). Your next level is a level of maturity and growth, a level of tenacity and stamina, a level where your childish things have been put away! A level of blessings and promise, a level of breakthroughs and victory! But only MEAT is strong enough to sustain you at such a level! Might I give you some valuable advice worthy to be followed? Before your next Promotion get rid of those still wearing Pampers! Before your next Degree get rid of those still Drooling! Before your next Baptism get rid of those still wearing Bibs! Before your next Calling get rid of those still Crying in Cribs! Before your next Revelation get rid of those still shaking Rattles! Before your next Touch get rid of those still Teething, because this next level Requires Those That Can Chew and Digest MEAT! Only MEAT is strong enough to sustain you in the season of winter! Therefore, you’ve got to let some folks go! I’m warning you, in the fall, let ‘em fall! Why? Cause my destiny is at stake; my calling is on the line; my purpose is trying to press through; my vision is getting clearer and I’m in the 9th month of birthing what’s in my belly! I can’t risk going without in the winter because I didn’t forfeit in the fall! I’m warning you, in the fall, let ‘em fall!

Never allow the Immaturity of your Company to Compromise the Growth of your Calling! 

Some people can’t go where you’re going. Some will want to, but can’t... or won’t, because of what’s required. I don’t know who needs to hear this again but, SEPARATE... IN ORDER TO ELEVATE.

Certain things can’t happen for you until God sees that you’re willing to clean house.

And be bold enough to tell them the truth! It’s because of where I’m going that I can’t take non-essentials with me. See, when it came time for the sacrifice, it was only between Abraham and Isaac, he told the servants to stay where they were! What’s about to take place don’t involve you! And you need to do the same! Only take those who are essential to the process, provision, promise and promotion of your next season! No non-essentials allowed! 

Well then, just for clarity, who are the non-essentials I can’t take with me? Glad you asked! You can’t take folks still fighting over he said she said nonsense. You can’t take folks still sucking their teeth, rolling their eyes, pointing their fingers, and folding their arms! You can’t take folks looking like preaching prostitutes. You can’t take folks who still get provoked into foolishness! You can’t take folks still cussing, crying, and complaining! You can’t take folks who fight more than they fast, play more than they pray and worry more than they worship!  

Jealous and envious folks are non-essentials; gossipers and back-biters are non-essentials; lazy sluggards are non-essentials; prayerless, faithless, powerless, wordless folks are non-essentials! Look around today at the company you keep and ask yourself a vital question: Are they non-essentials? Because if they’re non-essentials they can’t go where you’re going! 

Remind yourself: I can only take essential folks because they’re strong enough to handle the winter! They know how to stay on fire when the winds are blowing, the temps are dropping, the rain is freezing and no matter where you go, it’s bitter cold everywhere! You see, winter folks know how to struggle and endure; how to get provision in poverty; how to cry and not quit; how to pause and not give up; how to take a break and not breakdown! Winter folks can handle when it gets dreary, lonely, and cold, without becoming desperate, bitter, and weak! That’s why they’re essential! You can only take essential folks who understand that your purpose is coming with provision, but it’s coming in the winter! So, prepare yourself to let ‘em fall, in the fall!  

Don’t get upset when your Orpah kisses you and says goodbye. It’s her time and season to leave. And you can’t get what’s rightfully yours from God, until she’s left. Make today the day you Kiss and Say Goodbye to your Orpah! The summer will end, then fall will fastly approach and winter will be on its heels! So, begin your spring cleaning TODAY! 

Make sure you make every necessary change in each of the right seasons.

“Some people are going to Leave, but that’s not the End of your Story. That’s the End of their Part in your Story.” (Author Unknown)

“Sometimes you have to accept that people’s part in your story is over.” (Author Unknown)

“The best part about your story is that the next page is blank, and you get to write it.” (Chris Butler)

“When people want to go, let them go. Your destiny is never tied to anyone who leaves you, and it doesn’t mean that they are bad people. It just means that their part in your story is over.” (Author Unknown)

“I’m the author of my story and I’m not finished writing yet.” (Author Unknown)

“When writing the story of your life, don’t let anyone else hold the pen.” (Harley Davidson)

“Sometimes the people you wanted as part of your whole story are only meant to be one chapter.” (Author Unknown)

Blessings

J.P. Olson

https://www.thewordwithjpolson.com